Hugh Merrill died in late
December. We were very close friends for a few years in Atlanta in the early
1970s. We worked together at the Atlanta Journal, drank together, ate a great
deal of unhealthy food, smoked some dope (pot made him go to sleep peacefully,
hashish changed his personality in frightening ways) but beer was our drug of
choice and the Stein Club down on Peachtree Street where the hippies came out
to play was where we went to drink and talk the way Southern boys full of beer always
do – truth and bullshit in equal measures – and there were lots of us around
the table almost every afternoon, actors, musicians, other newspaper people and
an alcoholic novelist . One of the actors ended up on Dukes of Hazard and I heard the drunken novelist died a few years
later sleeping on the bar at Manuel’s Tavern where he mopped up after hours. Hugh
knew about many things, but sports was not one of them.
Once he was hitchhiking
in Tuscaloosa, got a ride and then was put out on the side of the road when he
didn’t recognize the grinning driver. It was Joe Namath (Joe said, “You really don’t know who I am?” Hugh said
no. And Joe put him out right there). Hugh was funny – and charming* too, but
not everyone thought so – and did the best impersonation of George Wallace I
ever heard, even did it for Wallace). We listened to lots of all kinds of music
together and fooled around at the edges of rock and roll – including a scary
evening spent onstage with the Jefferson Airplane that damaged my hearing and taught
us we never wanted to be rock stars (from up there the crowd was terrifying,
pressing, undulant, then there was an altercation with the police, settled when singer Marty Balin stopped
the show, stepped to the edge of the stage, leaned down and reminded the police
there were lots of us and not so many of them) and Hugh’s seduction of an
actual singing star (surprised him so much he called me from her bed at a
downtown hotel to tell me where he was, who he was with and how his groupie
dreams just came true) – and wrote about it sometimes. He was terrible with
money in those days. He probably borrowed a lot a little bit at a time, but I
never added it up. I didn’t expect to see it again when I gave it to him. And I
didn’t. He came from a famous Alabama family of lawyers, judges, politicians
and at least one lieutenant governor; I came from a proper North Carolina
family, well known in small, mostly local ways, and a busted marriage that
their propriety had a difficult time accepting. I figured propriety had a lot
to do with Hugh’s relationship with his family too. Neither of us wanted any
part of all that. He preferred music, acting and magic tricks to a career in
politics or lawyering; I preferred sin and almost anything else to the Presbyterian
propriety I grew up around. We both were looking for something, someone,
somewhere. What? Who? Where? We didn’t have a clue or a map or a plan. That
didn’t stop us. Besides, we had Atlanta. Hugh’s turned out to be a who
and he ended up marrying her and I heard he was devastated when she died, but I
wasn’t around for that part. Mine turned out to be a where and I was already gone. By then we had lost touch the way
friends like us often do. Completely.
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*How charming was he? One night we were driving north from
Atlanta to a bluegrass festival somewhere in Virginia. We decided to drop in on
my parents in North Carolina. Seemed like a good idea to a couple of guys who
had been driving and drinking ever since they left Atlanta. It was nearly
midnight, but the lights were still on in the house, so we stopped. We all chatted
out by the car in the driveway about this and that and I figured we would be
back on the road pretty soon. Then food came up. Hugh got to talking about
sawmill gravy and talked about it so lovingly and longingly that my mother went
into the house, fried up some fatback for the gravy, made a pan of biscuits to
go with it and sat Hugh down in her kitchen and let him eat his fill. He kept
her laughing (he did his George Wallace, too) and she kept him eating. We
didn’t leave until sometime near dawn. My mother lived until 2006 and from time
to time over all those years would remember that night and ask about Hugh,
amazed and disappointed when I told her I’d completely lost touch with him long
ago.
Great (but not the bottom photo)!
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